Are you a nerd, security expert or a hacker and do you have a girlfriend, wife? Then you must have experienced the problems I am going to list. Before I continue, I want to apologize to the females that are working in this field. This article is made for men!
As you are reading this article, I can tell that you have isolated yourself from your surroundings or that you have setup yourself in such an way that you will be able to browse the internet without being disturbed. This is the first point, the most of our times we are busy with the computer. This is a fact that a lot of females hate, why? Because your attention would be better spend if it would be directed to your girlfriend. The second point is the fact that once you are awake, you will continue to work on your computer. They hate that because of the reason provided above.
So we know that they need attention, but when we are working which we are the most of the time, we are giving our girlfriend no attention.